As the Miss Ohio 2009 competition approaches, I'm reminded of a few things. There will be many accomplished young ladies in Mansfield vying to be "the next Miss Ohio" and I want to relay an important message to them. I'm unsure of how many contestants read this blog, but I feel this holds some significance.
This is the third blog I've kept and in my previous two, I tried to keep up with weekly/monthly Character Counts! Newsletters thru their national organization founder; Michael Josephson. I really like one of the stories they added for this week and wanted to share it with my readers. I like it because this is something we all need to be reminded of and something I want to remind the '09 Miss Ohio contestants of. IF you don't win, keep your head high and remember who you are, your character and what you represent.
King James or Spoiled Prince?
You probably heard that LeBron James, nicknamed “King James,” acted like a spoiled prince after his team was soundly thrashed in game that eliminated his team from the NBA Eastern Conference Finals. It was a crushing disappointment to this 24-year-old superstar whose personal performance was stellar, even heroic.
No one could blame him for wanting to scurry out of the spotlight without congratulating and shaking the hands of the players who beat him. No one could blame him for wanting to shun the mandatory postgame press conference where he'd be forced to put his pain on display and answer repetitive questions about how the golden team with the best winning record in all of basketball could have been so soundly defeated. No one could blame him for wanting to avoid his responsibilities. But we can blame him for doing so. Duties often trump desires.
When he failed to acknowledge his opponents, he dishonored the tradition of the game and breached his responsibility as a role model to be gracious in defeat. It’s not simply a matter of sportsmanship; it’s a matter of respect. When he ditched the league’s mandated press conference, he violated his responsibilities to his teammates (he left them alone to explain the defeat) and to the game that made him a multimillionaire and an international icon. Later he made things worse. Ignoring the old adage, “When you’re in a hole, stop digging,” unkingly James dug much deeper with this explanation: “It’s hard for me to congratulate someone after you lose to them. I’m a winner. I’m not being a poor sport. When somebody beats you up, you’re not going to congratulate them. That don’t make sense to me. I’m a competitor. That’s what I do. It doesn’t make sense to shake somebody’s hand.”
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This is just my way of telling you to enjoy this experience for what it's worth, don't be a sore loser because...you're not and congratulate those who may go on to be "recognized" a little more than you. Break a leg 2009 Miss Ohio contestants! I'll be cheering for you all on Friday & Saturday!